My Words to Jun

JJR has been upset lately. I listened to her stories, and understood what was going on. I think she's being quite unlucky, to have encountered these problems, and these people.

All I can tell her is, forget those insignificant people. Focus at what you want, and go firmly towards the direction and that's all. They really do not deserve the slightest attention. But anyway, I won't talk much about "them" now here, as from what I observed, they are "highly sensitive".

Just to share the following article, though I've posted it before, but I always think it's the best solution to her problem:

"People are often unreasonable, illogical and self-centered;
Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives;
Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies;
Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you;
Be honest and frank anyway.

What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight;
Build anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, there may be jealousy;
Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow;
Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough;
Give the world the best you've got anyway.

You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God;
It was never between you and them anyway."

- Mother Teresa

And remember what Stephen Chow has said?

"There's no one who can ever influence me, thank you."

It's all about EQ, isn't it? ;)